How to Make Coloring a Family Activity (That Everyone Actually Enjoys)
Turning coloring time into a family ritual doesn't take much - just some crayons, the right pages, and a willingness to put the phones down. Here's how we made it work.
We started coloring together on a random Sunday about a year ago. The kids were restless, screens felt like a cop-out, and there was a pack of crayons on the counter from a birthday party goody bag. I printed a couple of pages, sat down at the table, and grabbed a crayon myself.
That’s the whole origin story. No Pinterest setup. No themed activity plan. Just crayons on the table and nowhere else to be.
Something clicked though. The kids sat down. It was quiet - actually quiet - for the first time all morning. We’ve been doing Sunday coloring for about 8 months now and it’s just… a thing we do.
Why It Works (Even for Adults)
Coloring isn’t just for kids. The adult coloring book trend felt a little gimmicky, but the core idea is legit. It gives your hands something to do, quiets the mental noise, and creates shared space without conversation pressure.
For families, that’s huge. You’re in the same room, same activity, but nobody has to perform or compete. A 4-year-old can color next to a 10-year-old next to a parent and everyone’s having their own version of a good time.
My partner was skeptical. “I’m going to sit and color? Really?” Two Sundays in, they were asking which crayon was the best green.
It gets you like that.
Setting Up a Coloring Station
You don’t need a craft room.
Table method: Clear the kitchen table. Supplies in the center - crayons, markers, colored pencils, whatever you’ve got. Print a stack of coloring pages at different difficulty levels and let people pick.
Floor method: Big blanket on the living room floor, dump the supplies, go for it. Works especially well with toddlers who don’t love sitting at tables.
Outside method: Weather permitting, take it to the porch. Coloring outdoors on a nice day is genuinely great. Clip the pages to something solid so the breeze doesn’t get them.
One thing I learned early: have supplies out and pages printed before you announce coloring time. If you spend 15 minutes hunting for crayons and waiting for the printer, you’ve already lost half the family.
A Simple Supply Kit
Keep these together in a box or basket:
- Big box of crayons (the 96-count Crayola is perfect for sharing)
- Washable markers in broad and fine tip
- Colored pencils for the detail-oriented family members
- A folder of pre-printed coloring pages at different levels
- A pencil sharpener (you’ll use it more than you think)
When the basket is ready, family coloring is always five minutes away. That matters more than any fancy setup.
Picking Pages for Everyone
This is where it can fall apart. A 3-year-old and an 11-year-old aren’t going to enjoy the same page. That’s fine - just print a mix.
Littlest ones (ages 2-4): Big simple shapes, thick outlines. Pages like our happy dinosaur friends or friendly farm animals work perfectly. They can scribble freely without frustration.
Middle crew (ages 5-8): Medium detail with recognizable scenes. Magical mermaid gardens, dragon bakeries, and balloon adventures give them enough to work with without being overwhelming.
Older kids and adults (ages 9+): Intricate designs with smaller sections. Treehouse villages, underwater scenes, and space expeditions have the kind of detail that keeps older people engaged.
Let people swap pages. Nobody has to finish. That’s an important one. Enjoyment, not completion.
The Phone Thing
Everyone puts their phone away. Everyone. Including you.
Our rule: phones on the counter, face-down, silent. If someone needs to check something, they get up and walk over. Sounds strict. But it changes everything. When phones are at the table, attention fragments. When they’re gone, people actually talk.
And the conversations during coloring are different from regular dinner talk. Lighter. Random. Our 6-year-old will suddenly mention something from recess three weeks ago. Our oldest will give more than a one-word answer to “how was your day.” Something about hands being busy and eyes on the page makes talking easier.
If going fully phone-free feels like a lot, start with a time limit. “30 minutes, no screens.” Most families find that once you’re into it, nobody reaches for their phone anyway.
Parents Get Something Out of It Too
I wasn’t expecting to enjoy this as much as I do. But there’s real science behind it.
The repetitive motion lowers cortisol. After a long work day, 20 minutes of coloring actually helps me decompress more than scrolling does. You can’t really color and think about your to-do list at the same time - it pulls you into the moment. And you’re spending time with your kids without having to entertain them, teach them, or manage anything. Just being in the same room, doing the same thing.
I’m not going to call it meditation or therapy. But a 30-minute window where the whole family is calm, creative, and in the same room without anyone complaining? That’s worth protecting.
Making It Stick
The trick is consistency, not perfection.
Pick a time and protect it. Ours is Sunday morning after breakfast. Doesn’t happen every single Sunday - life happens - but it’s the default. If nobody says otherwise, we’re coloring.
Keep it short. 20-30 minutes is plenty, especially early on. You can always go longer. Setting expectations low means nobody dreads it.
Add music. We put on something mellow and instrumental. Fills the silence without competing for attention. Kids’ movie soundtracks work. Lo-fi beats work. Acoustic playlists work.
Put the work up. We have a fridge spot that rotates everyone’s pages - adults included. Sounds cheesy. But seeing your work displayed makes you want to do it again.
Don’t force it. If someone’s not feeling it, fine. Skip a week. The fastest way to kill a family ritual is making it mandatory.
Ways to Mix It Up
Once you’ve got the routine, a few things keep it fresh:
Collaborative pages - two people color the same page, each taking different sections. The color clashes are half the fun.
Theme nights - everyone colors from the same category. All ocean creatures one week, all space themes the next.
Color challenges - “only warm colors” or “pick three crayons and that’s all you get.” Constraints spark interesting stuff.
Story time combo - color while someone reads a chapter book out loud. Great for early elementary kids working on listening skills.
Just Start
You don’t need a plan. Don’t even need new supplies (though our supplies guide can help if you’re running low). Just a few coloring pages and a willingness to sit down and pick up a crayon yourself.
It might feel awkward the first time. Normal. By the third or fourth session, it’ll just feel like your thing.
Those quiet, creative, together-but-separate moments might end up being the best part of your week. They are for us.